Online Dating Guide from Russian American Singles Club and Great Hot Singles Dating Network.

New to Online Dating? Trying to find the man or woman of your dreams through the Virtual World? You need to have a Good Personal Ad or Dating Profile. Some people do not believe you, when you tell them that most problems with not enough Responses to their profile can be fixed just by writing a better Ad. But if you go to an Online Dating Site and randomly start reading out profiles, you would not believe that so many people write such terrible ads! Maybe it is this overvalued notion of spontaneity, of writing whatever comes to your mind, letting it flow, being you - which leads you to write gibberish in your ads. Say goodbye to any success in Online Dating with that. Think what would happen if NASA Engineers became spontaneous. So stop your Dating shuttle from crashing and read these examples of common Mistakes in Dating Profiles. Have a laugh, but be careful, your own profile may have bugs too! ... "I am a funny, witty person in New York ..." Funny and witty people never write that directly. Instead of saying this, add a touch of humor to your profile... "I was just bored, so wrote my profile here..." A negative attitude. Instead, say, "I am new to New York City (Buffalo, Long Island, New York State or Online Dating) ..." ... "I am an Honest, Spontaneous, Creative, Intelligent (..other personal adjectives) ... person in Brooklyn, New York." Very few people think they are not, so this is very subjective (same as the fact that 80% people believe that they have an IQ above average!). Even if true, it is redundant information at best. Avoid using personal adjectives in your Ad or Profile. Define yourself concretely-better to say "I am a Guitar player in a Band and play at restaurants in New York City, Rochester, Buffalo, Long Island, Yonkers and all New York State" or "I live in New York City and I write Novels" or "I am a practising Doctor in New York City" than "I am Creative and Intelligent in New York City ... " Also please note that "I want a guy who can make me laugh ..." Comes across as negative - you sound slightly depressed, if you need someone just to make you laugh. There is plenty of stuff on the TV to make you laugh, and you are not looking for a joker, you are looking for a boyfriend, a mate, remember? "I live in New York City, and I like dark haired men. I would like to meet dark haired man from New York City, but if you are blond and good-looking in New York City, Long Island, Rochester, Buffalo, Yonkers or anywhere in New York State write me anyway, maybe you can change my mind...." Turn-off to blond men in New York City, Long Island, Rochester, Buffalo, Yonkers and all New York State. Make up your mind, what is it: New York City, Long Island, Rochester, Buffalo, Yonkers or all New York State? If you are looking for only dark haired men and only in New York City, just say that. Do not play both sides of the coin, it generally backfires. Better not to say anything if you are not sure.... "I like taking walks by the ocean, or watching TV, or going camping with my friends..." Unimportant details. Most people like these things, and these are hardly important details in finding a partner (it is unlikely you would not like going out with someone just because they do not like walking the beach or watching TV with you). Your hobbies is where you put these things, and more specifically-e.g. Camping, or Watching Basketball.... "I am a student in Brooklyn, New York ... I am 21, sexy, flirtatious ... I like kisses on my back, full body massages from my boyfriend..." Generally speaking, we should not advise you on sexual stuff, as it is personal matter, but we would suggest that you think about it this way: would you say this to a guy or a girl in a bar who you meet for the first time? If not, then do not say it in your Ad either. ... "I am professional in New York City and I am looking for a REAL man/woman in New York or New Jersey, with all capital letters of REAL..." Everyone is real. Basically, do not worry, sounds like you have had some bad experiences in relationships, but that is over now. Come with a positive attitude to Online Dating, Russian American Singles Club and Great Hot Singles Dating Network and just meet other singles. Then when you email them and meet them in person, you can decide if they are real or not.... "I am Jane, 26 years old in Brooklyn, New York and I would like to meet a man from New York City or Long Island, New York who is between 25 and 30 years old, but I am not interested in guys who are bitter and boring..." No one is. Use the Ad mostly to tell what you like, not what you do not like. Agreeability is a must have in first introductions. Another topic that comes up quite often is what should you do if you found a person of your dreams, but he or she lives in another city, state or even another country? Dating sites for singles in USA are our primary focus. Generally speaking we are local dating sites. You can search profiles and contact members from our network of 20 dating sites to find your match. International dating is not primary focus of our dating network, local dating for singles in USA is. If you are thinking about International Dating we suggest that you limit your search to USA, Canada and United Kingdom (Great Britain). Do however be very careful if you are traveling abroad to meet someone because if things fail at the first hurdle, then you are totally stuck on your own in a foreign country. Dating someone, who lives in another city or another state is a different matter. Suppose that you live in New York City and you found your dream person in Buffalo, New York. What do you do? Buffalo is also in New York State, after New York City, it is the second largest city in New York State and Buffalo is about 420 miles from New York City. Should you meet him or her, would this relationship work? There is no one easy answer to that. Would you go to Buffalo or should he/she come to New York to meet you? There are many nice restaurants in New York City, as there are some in Buffalo and there are other interesting places to go on a date in New York and in Buffalo. If you like each other what would you do? Would one of you or both of you travel between New York and Buffalo? Would one of you relocate? Suppose he/she is a college student in Buffalo, would he/she be able to transfer to a college or University in New York? If one of you has a job in Buffalo, would he/she find another job in New York? If both of you own your houses, one in New York and other in Buffalo would he/she sell his/her house in Buffalo and move in with you in your house in New York? As you can see there are no easy answers to many of these questions. Only you and your potential partner can decide if it can work for both of you. You may also want to read the next section, as it gives you some quick facts about New York City, Long Island, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers, Syracuse, Albany, New Rochelle, Schenectady, Utica and other cities and towns in New York State.

Russian American Singles Club and Great Hot Singles Dating Network Quick Guide to New York City, Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, Hempstead, Brookhaven, Long Island, North Hempstead, Babylon, Islip, Oyster Bay, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers, Utica, Syracuse, Amherst, Albany, New Rochelle, Schenectady and New York State.

New York State is the third largest State in USA, by population. New York State has a population of 19,541,453. New York State is nicknamed Empire State and New York City is nicknamed Big Apple. The largest cities and towns in New York State are New York City, Hempstead Town (Nassau County), Islip Town (Suffolk County), Oyster Bay Town (Nassau County), Buffalo (Erie County), North Hempstead Town (Nassau County), Babylon Town (Suffolk County), Rochester (Monroe County), Huntington Town (Suffolk County), Yonkers (Westchester County), Syracuse (Onondaga County), Smithtown Town (Suffolk County), Amherst Town (Erie County), Ramapo Town (Rockland County). New York City is the largest city in New York State. New York City is also the largest city in the USA. New York City has a population of 8,363,710 and we know there are some estimates that are much higher, but we use US Census Bureau data and estimates for New York City and cities and towns population in New York State and in other States and for New York City that estimate was 8,363,710 for July 1, 2008, that is why we said that New York City population is 8,363,710. Broolkyn (Kings County) is the largest Borough in New York City with population of 2,556,598. Queens (Queens County) is the second largest Borough in New York City with population of 2,293,007. Manhattan (New York County) is the third largest Borough in New York City with population of 1,634,795. Bronx (Bronx County) is the fourth largest Borough in New York City with population of 1,391,903. With population of 487,407 Staten Island (Richmond County) is the fifth Borough in New York City. New York City is the center of New York Metropolitan Area. New York Metropolitan Area is the largest Metropolitan Area in New York State. New York Metropolitan Area is also the largest Metropolitan Area in USA. Buffalo is the second largest city in New York State, after New York City. Buffalo is located in the Northwestern New York. Buffalo has a population of 270,919. Buffalo population is on the decline. In 2000 Buffalo had a population of 292,648. Buffalo is the largest city of Buffalo Niagara Falls Metropolitan Area. Buffalo Niagara Falls Metropolitan Area is the second largest Metro Area in New York State, after New York Metro Area. Buffalo is about 420 miles north west from New York City. Rochester is the third largest city in New York State, after New York City and Buffalo. Rochester is the center of Rochester, New York Metropolitan Area. Rochester Metropolitan Area is the third largest Metropolitan Area in New York State, after New York Metropolitan Area and Buffalo Niagara Falls Metropolitan Area. Rochester has a population of 206,886. Rochester is located in the Western New York. Rochester is about 360 miles north west from New York City. Yonkers is the fourth largest city in New York State, after New York City, Buffalo and Rochester. Yonkers borders New York City. Yonkers has a population of 201,588. Yonkers is the largest city in Westchester County. Syracuse is the fifth largest city in New York State, after New York City, Buffalo, Rochester and Yonkers. Syracuse is the center of Syracuse, New York Metropolitan Area. Syracuse has a population of 138,068. Syracuse is located in the Westcentral New York. Syracuse is located about 270 north west from New York City. Albany is the sixth largest city in New York State, after New York City, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers and Syracuse. Albany is also the Capital of New York State. Albany, Troy and Schenectady form Albany Troy Schenectady Metropolitan Area. Albany Troy Schenectady Metropolitan Area is the fourth largest Metropolitan Area in New York State, after New York Metropolitan Area, Buffalo Niagara Falls Metropolitan Area and Rochester, New York Metropolitan Area. Albany has a population of 93,539. Albany is located in the Eastcentral New York. Albany is about 135 miles north from New York City. New Rochelle is the seventh largest city in New York State, after New York City, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers, Syracuse and Albany. New Rochelle is located in the Southeastern New York, about 2 miles north from New York City. New Rochelle has a population of 74,115. Mount Vernon is the eighth largest city in New York State, after New York City, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers, Syracuse, Albany and New Rochelle. Mount Vernon borders New York City. Mount Vernon has a population of 68,653. Schenectady is the ninth largest city in New York State, after New York City, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers, Syracuse, Albany, New Rochelle and Mount Vernon. Schenectady is located in the Eastcentral New York. Schenectady is part of Albany Troy Schenectady Metropolitan Area. Schenectady has a population of 61,152. Utica is the tenth largest city in New York State, after New York City, Buffalo, Rochester, Yonkers, Syracuse, Albany, New Rochelle, Mount Vernon and Schenectady. Utica is the largest city in the Utica Rome, New York Metropolitan Area. Utica has a population of 58,082. Utica is located in the Central New York. Utica is about 250 miles north west from New York City. Hempstead is the largest town in New York State. Hempstead is located in Nassau County on Long Island. Hempstead borders New York City. Hempstead has a population of 761,101. Brookhaven is the second largest town in New York State, after Hempstead. Brookhaven is located in Suffolk County on Long Island. Brookhaven population is 488,800. Islip is the third largest town in New York State, after Hempstead and Brookhaven. Islip is located in Suffolk County on Long Island. Islip has a population of 336,292. Oyster Bay is the fourth largest town in New York State, after Hempstead, Brookhaven and Islip. Oyster Bay is located in Nassau County on Long Island. Oyster Bay has a population of 301,474. North Hempstead is the fifth largest town in New York State, after Hempstead, Brookhaven, Islip and Oyster Bay. North Hempstead is located in Nassau County on Long Island. North Hempstead has a population of 226,457. Babylon is the sixth largest town in New York State, after Hempstead, Brookhaven, Islip, Oyster Bay and North Hempstead. Babylon is located in Suffolk County on Long Island. Babylon has a population of 219,761. Huntington is the seventh largest town in New York State, after Hempstead, Brookhaven, Islip, Oyster Bay, North Hempstead and Babylon. Huntington is located in Suffolk County on Long Island. Huntington has a population of 201,594. US Census Bureau data was used for this article. For New York State population estimate of July 1, 2009 was used. For New York City and other cities and towns in New York State population estimate of July 1, 2008 was used.